When Being Multi-Talented Feels Like Too Much
You landed here for a reason. Was it the post title? Let me guess—you’ve got big dreams and a lot of talents to back them up. Maybe you’re a writer and a painter. Or you run a small business on top of your 9-to-5, and somehow you’re also the go-to friend for event planning.
It’s exciting, isn’t it? Having so many things you love and are genuinely good at. But let’s be honest—it’s also exhausting.
I’ve been there. Some days, it feels like my brain is this nonstop idea factory that forgot to include an off switch. I’m fired up about a new project one minute, but by the next, I’m drowning in a to-do list for five different passions. And let’s not even talk about the guilt—the guilt of feeling like you’re not giving enough time to anything, even though you’re giving everything to everything.
Sound familiar? If you’re nodding along, I want you to know two things:
You’re not alone.
There’s a way out of the chaos.
Lean in, friend, so I can tell you something else: you can’t do it all right away.
I know that’s tough to hear, but you need to let it sink in. You can’t chase every dream at the same time—and that’s okay.
I used to think focusing on one thing meant abandoning the others. But I’ve learned that it’s about timing, not giving up. When you focus on one or two things at a time, you’re not shutting the door on your other talents. You’re just giving them room to breathe.
Write It Down Before You Forget
If your head is like mine, it’s bursting with ideas for all the things. Here’s what works for me: write it down. Whether it’s in a notebook, a phone app, or even a random sticky note—just get it out of your head.
Having a safe place to store your ideas doesn’t just free up mental space; it gives you peace. You’ll know those ideas aren’t going anywhere, even if you don’t act on them right away.
Set Small Goals, Not Impossible Ones
Here’s a secret: the quickest way to burn out is trying to conquer the world in a week. I’ve done it (spoiler: it didn’t work).
Now, I aim smaller. Instead of saying, “I’ll write a book this year,” I say, “I’ll write one chapter this month.” It feels doable, and every little win keeps me motivated.
Rest Is Productive, Too
Oh, and can we talk about rest? Because if you’re anything like me, you’re probably terrible at it. I used to think resting was lazy, but now I know it’s just as important as the work.
So, shut your eyes for 15 minutes. Go for a walk. Rest isn’t the enemy; it’s the fuel that keeps your creativity alive.
You don’t have to have it all figured out today. But you can start where you are, with what you have. And that’s more than enough.
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Regina is a writer, homeschooling mom, and owner of a soul food catering business. She is the host of the Pray to Play podcast, where she shares practical tips and heartfelt advice for parents navigating the busy world of athletics. A contributor to several publications, including Tracie Miles' Living Unbroken book study, she is also an advocate for young adults with developmental disabilities and serves on the Compel Pro volunteer leadership team. Living in Ohio with her family, she designs Squarespace websites for fellow creatives and spends her free time cheering her sons from the sidelines or sipping tea while chatting about God’s goodness with women.
